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Questions that Can Turn Your Life Around
Dear
Magic: I was
wondering if you could give me some advice.
It confuses me many times trying to figure out what is wrong, or what is
right for me, and where I fit. There are
so many points of view. How can a person
tell what’s right for them? Janice Jablonski
Dear
Janice: Yeah, I
know what you mean, it took me a long time to figure out what was right or
wrong for me, the world is such a crazy, overwhelming place, how are we
supposed to know what’s true for us? So I acknowledge your concern. Eventually after much soul seeking, I finally
learned after many ups and downs that it’s
not the answers you get from others, but the questions you ask yourself that
help you grow stronger and know and trust what is really true for you. From the list of questions below, you’ll be
able to notice what I discovered: There are no right or wrong answers..just
yours!. I hope you find this
information helpful.
Good discoveries to you
Jan. Magic Powers
1.
If
today were the last day of your life, would you want to do what you are about
to do today?
I discovered that you
have to live your own life in your own way.
That’s all there is to it. Each
of us has a unique fire in our soul for something that makes us feel alive…our
passion, knowing what makes us Tick.
It’s your duty to find and keep it lit.
It works if you can stop caring too much about what everyone else wants
for you, and start actually living for yourself.
·
Don’t hide behind other people’s or your
culture’s rules and belief systems.
·
Don’t let others tell you what you want,
do what work for you.
·
Don’t help others so much that you
forget to help yourself first.
·
Design and experience YOUR own precious
life.
The life you create
from doing something that moves you is far better than the life you get from
sitting around wishing you were doing it, even if it’s only ten minutes here
and there. Commit and trust yourself, you’re all you have!
2.
If
you had a friend who spoke to you in the same way that you sometimes speak to
yourself, how long would you allow this person to be your friend?
Remember, the way you
treat yourself sets the standards for others to treat you. Stop discrediting yourself for everything you
aren’t, and start giving yourself credit for everything you ARE. We have to learn to be our own best friends,
because sometimes we fall too easily into the trap of being our own worst
enemies.
So when you’re hanging
out by yourself, watch how you talk to yourself. Watch your thoughts. Keep in mind that it is only ever your own
thoughts that can hurt you.. It’s how we
choose to think about it all. You know
this is true. You think 60,000 thoughts
a day. Don’t waste fifty nine thousand,
nine hundred and ninety-nine of them on any limited, negative thinking.
3.
What
are you holding on to that you need to let go of?
As you slowly grow, you
will discover more about who you are and what you want, and then decide to make
changes you need to make. Realize that
the lifestyle and belief systems and what’s right or wrong, in your life you’ve
been living no longer fits. The people
you’ve known forever no longer see things the way you do. Understand that some things simply are NOT
meant to be. Come up with your own
answers of what is true for you. Everything
around you is impermanent – your body, your possessions, your relationships,
etc. You have NO control over every
little thing that happens to you, but you do have control over how you think, your
own truths, and how you decide to internalize it. This sure made life a lot easier for me, for
sure.
In
closure, my advice would be:
·
Don’t sweat the small stuff.
·
Live Simply.
·
Love generously.
·
Speak truthfully.
·
Work diligently.
·
Get in touch with your judgmental
beliefs and what doesn’t work for you anymore and find your own truth.
·
Then let go, and let what’s meant to BE.
Magic
Morsel: Self-inquiry is one of
the surest paths to personal freedom and positive change.
Magic
Morsel: What do you
make more important than getting what you want?
Magic
Morsel: You are not
your thoughts…choose the ones you want that work for you.
CONNECT WITH US.
Email me your letters, or
inquiries. Let me know your opinions,
let’s have your suggestions and your questions.
If you’re ready to feel good about yourself, then connect now! Help is here if you only just ask: Just contact me for a free ½ hour
consultation at 209.785.2042 or marge@discoverwinningways.com.
(Would you please call between
3:00 p.m. and 5:00 p.m.? If I am with a
client, I do not answer the phone, so please leave a message and I’ll get back
to you as soon as possible. Thanks. ‘Magic’ Powers J
Note: I
only work with people who can benefit most from my coaching; such as those who
are in transition, open minded, interested in growing and viewing their world
as an opportunity full of possibilities.
I enjoy working with people who are committed and motivated to ‘win’ and
want to be satisfied in a life that actually works and fits who they are! Good thoughts.
Good
luck.
WINNING WAYS, Founder,
Career
and Master NLP Life Learning Advisor
209.785.2042
